Menopause is a natural transition, but it can bring some unexpected changes, especially when it comes to your intimate life. For many women in perimenopause or post-menopause, vaginal dryness, thinning tissues, and discomfort during sex become common realities. The good news? You don’t have to accept it as “just part of getting older.” With the right knowledge and products, you can stay confident, comfortable, and connected.At Pink Rabbit, we believe every stage of life deserves pleasure and ease. That’s why we’re shining a light on menopause and sharing practical advice, especially around lubricants and moisturisers that make all the difference.Understanding Menopause and Its Impact on IntimacyMenopause typically occurs between ages 45 and 55 when oestrogen levels drop. One of the most common (and least talked about) effects is genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM), formerly known as vaginal atrophy. Lower oestrogen causes the vaginal walls to become thinner, drier, and less elastic. This can lead to:
  • Persistent dryness and irritation
  • Itching or burning
  • Pain or discomfort during sex (dyspareunia)
  • Reduced natural lubrication
  • Increased risk of urinary tract issues
The result? Many women pull back from intimacy, feeling frustrated or self-conscious. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Non-hormonal solutions like quality vaginal moisturisers and lubricants are safe, effective, and widely recommended by health professionals.Important note: Always chat with your GP or a menopause specialist. Some women benefit from vaginal oestrogen or other treatments, but many find great relief with over-the-counter moisturisers and lubes alone.

The Difference Between Moisturisers and Lubricants
  • Vaginal moisturisers are used regularly (daily or every few days) to restore and maintain hydration in the vaginal tissues. Think of them like a daily face cream for your most intimate area.
  • Lubricants are applied right before (or during) sexual activity to reduce friction and enhance comfort and pleasure.
Both are game-changers during menopause, but choosing body-safe, pH-balanced, hormone-free formulas is key.

Our Top Recommendations from Pink RabbitWe stock only high-quality, reputable brands that are gentle on sensitive skin. Here are our go-to picks specifically helpful for menopausal dryness:

For daily comfort: JO Vaginal Moisturiser
This thick, creamy, hormone-free formula is designed exactly for vaginal dryness. Infused with soothing aloe, cucumber extract, vitamin E, and bisabolol, it glides on smoothly and absorbs to leave delicate tissues soft and hydrated all day. Perfect for routine use, no mess, no fuss.
Shop JO Vaginal Moisturiser (120ml) →

For sensitive skin during intimacy: Wicked Aqua Sensitive
A water-based lubricant formulated for sensitive skin. It’s gentle, long-lasting, and free from harsh ingredients that could cause irritation. Ideal if you’re prone to sensitivity or just want something ultra-comfortable.
Shop Wicked Aqua Sensitive (120ml) →

For natural-feeling glide: JO Aloe Water-Based Lubricant
Enriched with aloe vera, this water-based lube mimics your body’s natural moisture and feels incredibly silky. Safe for use with toys and condoms, and gentle enough for daily intimacy.
Shop JO Aloe Water-Based Lubricant (120ml) →

If you prefer a longer-lasting option for extended play, check out our silicone or hybrid lubricants in the full range, they provide extra slickness that doesn’t dry out as quickly.
Browse our entire collection designed for women here → Designed for Women at Pink Rabbit

Quick Tips for Using Lubricants During Menopause
  1. Apply generously – Don’t be shy! More lube almost always equals more comfort.
  2. Layer it – Use a daily moisturiser like the JO Vaginal Moisturiser in the morning, then add lubricant before sex.
  3. Choose wisely – Look for paraben-free, glycerin-free (if you’re prone to yeast), and fragrance-free options.
  4. Experiment – Water-based is easiest to clean up and toy-friendly. Silicone lasts longer but isn’t ideal with silicone toys.
  5. Combine with other self-care – Stay hydrated, consider pelvic floor exercises, and maintain open communication with your partner.
Recommended Couples Toys to Enhance Intimacy During MenopauseMenopause doesn’t mean the end of exciting shared pleasure. The right couples toys can boost blood flow, increase sensitivity, and make everything feel more comfortable when paired with good lubricant.Here are our top picks:
Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples
U-shaped couples vibrator with air pulsation and 12 vibration settings for shared clitoral, vaginal, and G-spot stimulation during penetration.
Shop Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples →
Evolved Couples Therapy
Dual-stimulation toy that delivers targeted pleasure for both partners.
Shop Evolved Couples Therapy →

Bodywand Rechargeable Duo Ring
Vibrating cock ring with clit tickler for simultaneous stimulation.
Shop Bodywand Rechargeable Duo Ring →

Quick tip: Always apply plenty of water-based lubricant (like JO Aloe) before play for maximum comfort and glide.

You’re Not Alone – And Pleasure Is Still YoursMenopause is a chapter, not the end of the story. Thousands of women rediscover (or even improve) their sex lives with the simple addition of quality lubricants and moisturisers. At Pink Rabbit, we’re proud to support Australian women through every stage with discreet, high-quality products delivered nationwide.If you have questions about which product might suit you best, our friendly team is just an email away at hello@pinkrabbit.com.au. Or pop into our Perth store at 129 Barrack Street for personalised advice.

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